For “For F*** Sake” moments, the point is not that you’re broken; it’s that your nervous system is loudly, sometimes creatively, trying to keep you alive in a world that keeps handing you flaming garbage.
Overcoming the shame of trauma means ditching the performance version of you and befriending the real one who is tired, fierce, funny, and done with pretending. Authentic living does not mean you never get triggered again; it means you stop abandoning yourself when you are triggered.